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 In an ideal world, breaking up with someone would be clean cut and hassle free. People would admit and accept they're not compatible, then move on with their lives.  In reality however, being human means that splitting up is often a lot more complicated.  We have separations that are a little too friendly, ones that are highly contentious, and some which are downright confusing, simply because we’re actually not very sure what happened.  If any of these scenarios sound familiar, here’s some advice on how to balance a past lover with your new one. “…he’s one of my best friends.” As wonderful and new age as it may seem to you, no one entering into a relationship wants to hear their new partner uttering these words, or anything to this effect.  It’s not that your new flame is necessarily hoping the breakup with your ex was a bitter one, it’s simply that it can be uncomfortable joining this particular club.  The club being one where everyone has some intimate ...

 When we’re single it’s very easy to not do a lot of things because we don’t yet have a partner.  It’s as though suddenly, a whole portion of the world gets shut down to us, we can’t go out to dinner or parties alone, we can’t go to the movies, and solo holidays are just plain strange. Well, to dispel some of the negativity and all this easy excuse making, we want you to take action and create what we’re calling a Love List.   Your Love List involves you reversing all the cant’s into wills and, by answering a few key questions, getting clear on the type of love and high-end dating you want to experience.  You may even realise that you can put some of these plans into action right now, on your own, with friends or by taking exclusive dating services. What would be your ideal day? When you’re matched with someone, and things are going really well, what will you say if you’re asked this question? Rather than spend time thinking about what you can’t do, we suggest g...

 We all have roles to play in our relationships and over time they can become fixed.  Good guy or bad guy, we get used to acting our part and also the way that it’s received.  For this reason, change can be a difficult move to make.  When one person assumes the role of child and the other adult, the strain of trying to keep things balanced will begin to wear on the partnership.  If one of you is uncomfortable with the extra or lack of responsibility, it’s vital to acknowledge this early and begin to address it.  Identifying parent-child dynamics Distinguishing parent-child dynamics from husband-wife or boyfriend-girlfriend can initially be very difficult, especially if the imbalance has grown gradually over months or years.  The main clue to look out for and to be aware of is how, as a couple, you handle issues of responsibility and control.   It isn’t necessarily about who makes the most money or who makes most of the decisions, it can be mo...

 As we get older the search for love, when we’re not already partnered up and happy, can feel like an uphill climb.  The fears are similar for both sexes; the worry that it’s getting too late to start a family, that you’ll end up left on the shelf alone, that you’ll never get married, or find another human being who’ll accept you for who you are.  However uncomfortable the feeling is, it is perfectly natural to begin getting a little antsy around this time, especially when you feel you simply want the happiness that everyone else appears to have.   For those of you who need a little support, we’ve taken the time to outline a few of the main blocks people unwittingly run into when looking for love as an adult.  Take note and try to avoid them if you can. You’ve been there, done that It’s likely that if you’re in your 30s, you’ve got a few relationships under your belt already.  With this understandably comes a reluctance to repeat the same mistakes, fal...

 People are usually on their best behaviour when it comes to first dates.  Filled with a whole gamut of emotions, even the most confident of us are likely to be harbouring nerves, worry about how we’re going to be perceived and of course, that ever present fear of rejection.  With this in mind, Macbeth Matchmaking is giving you a golden ticket into your date’s mind.  If you get stuck for conversation at any point, or aren’t quite sure what that look meant, here are some of the things she’s wondering, but probably to embarrassed to say. Don’t worry, you can thank us later for this exclusive matchmakers/matchmaking advice. What do you really want? With a few exceptions, this is usually the prevailing thought in a women’s mind when she’s sitting across the table from you. It will be especially true if she’s looking for a serious relationship and is uninterested in wasting time on someone with differing goals.  If your date does have the confidence to just come out ...

 Knowing what to say on a first date can be daunting, especially when coupled with the fear of having to sit through awkward silences and having nothing in common.  Sometimes this fear gets us so nervous, that we find ourselves uttering statements and asking questions that we really shouldn’t.  Whether inappropriate or just plain rude, it can show off elements of our character that aren’t very thoughtful and perhaps not the best representation of whom we truly are.   For those of you men who have fallen foul to your own version of foot in mouth disease, here are 5 things to definitely NEVER say on a first date.  I’m best friends with my ex Your date’s first thought: Ugh, really man, really? Let’s get this straight; no one, we repeat, no one, ever wants to hear that their date still has a previous lover on speed dial.  The only people who possibly don’t mind, are those who still have their own intimate connection with an ex.   Being best frien...

 If you’ve been single a while, or are recently getting back into the dating world, you may be wondering exactly what it is men are seeking in 2018.  It has to be said that our society doesn’t always allow for them to be truly open about what they need or want from a partner, so we’re going to step in and be totally honest with you. Here it is…  Space for self-expression Men want a woman who they can be themselves with.  This means that they’re accepted for who they are, at their core, and able to express it in the way they most feel comfortable with. Changing the way a man dresses, influencing the type of foods he eats or even the sort of shows he watches, may be okay as a surface level adaptation, but expecting him to stop seeing particular friends, give up hobbies or suddenly begin caring deeply about your shoe collection is a whole different story.  There are such strong expectations of what it is to be a man these days that sometimes we spend too much time ...

 Dating within our age range is, when you think about it, quite a logical thing to do.  It means that our journey in life can perhaps sync more easily.  When we’re young we can share each other’s motivations and limitations in life, and in adulthood we’re able to experience joint milestones like marriage and our first children, or our first homes as independent people.  This logical viewpoint however portrays life as a very linear process, whilst actual living it tells us that there are many variants that can occur.   People who are unable to think ‘outside the box’ of convention will always regard large age gaps in relationships with amazement and suspicion.  Whether you’re dating older or younger, it’s helpful to be aware of what you’ll come up against and that is why private matchmakers too support such relations. The assumption from strangers If you’re a man and your partner is younger, you’re probably well aware of the different assumptions you’...

 These days our requirements for a partner can be extensive. As we become more confident in asking for the things we want in life and as we witness the ever-growing possibilities of love and luxury, our expectations slowly begin to creep up.  Whilst there’s nothing wrong with wanting the best from lovers, if we’re prepared to be the best ourselves, it’s important to be mindful of what really matters. If you’re single and looking for a fulfilling relationship through a high-end matchmaker , you may want to consider what you’d do if your special person arrives and they look the part, talk your love language, appreciate the same things as you, but hold different values or beliefs. What’s the actual issue? Occasionally, what looks like a hugely different set of beliefs and motivations between two people can, on closer inspection, be a lot less significant than once thought.  When presented with a partner who seems to have differing opinions to ones that are important to you, ...

 You may be familiar with hearing phrases such as, ‘I just want a real man’ or ‘I just want someone decent’ when women are asked what they want from a partner.  At Berkeley International we know how unhelpful this sort of vague and generic description can be, so in this blog we’re going to break it down a little.  Most women, when you drill down a little deeper, do have a clear idea of their perfect match and here are the biggest similarities. Security  One of the qualities that women look for in men is security.  Now, when most people think about this word they immediately assume it refers to financial security.  Not true.  Whilst this is a consideration and an extremely important one to some, what’s usually valued more is emotional and physical security. Emotional security means that you hear and listen when she is speaking.  It means that you make her feelings a priority in your life and do your best to express how much you value, love and resp...

 Ghosting appears, ironically, to be something that has sprung up out of nowhere these past few years. It’s likely been around for decades, but as the ways in which we connect with each other increases, so too do the ways we can disconnect – seemingly without trace. More and more people are releasing the shame and anxiety involved in being so unceremoniously rejected. There are countless tales of people going on multiple dates and then suddenly having their messages ignored and once active dating profiles replaced by broken links. If you haven’t experienced it, count yourself lucky. If you have, there are three possibilities we want you to remember and consider.   Plain old-fashioned rudeness It’s impossible to deny that quite simply, some people lack an appropriate amount of care for others and are extremely rude.  There are many reasons why people perpetrate the act of ghosting and this has to be one of the least acceptable.  Believe it or not, we’ve spoken to thes...

 So you may not be a couple who fight in the heated sense, with arms thrashing and raised voices, but this doesn’t mean you don’t argue. Interestingly, there’s a large divide between couples that believe not arguing with a spouse is a badge of honour and those who think it’s a totally healthy way to interact, sometimes. Having said this, the type of arguing we hear less about is bickering and this is unfortunate, as it can inadvertently normalise the behaviour within relationships.  Bickering, when happening to extremes, is a slow burning and pervasive form of communication. If left unchecked and not taken seriously, there’s a chance that eventually all those minuscule issues will become a mountain, one that overwhelms individuals to near breaking point.  What’s the difference, really? Bickering is defined as arguing over small matters that on the surface are trivial. It could be something as tiny as who should drive or clothes left on the bathroom floor. The problem is t...

 Unfortunately, for some women in today’s society, one of the most frustrating elements of life is deciding when, if and how you choose to become a mother. The minute you hit 30 not only does your body clock begin chiming louder than ever, but relatives, friends and seemingly the whole medical profession appear to grow impatient for your child rearing years to commence. It’s a lot of pressure when you’re not ready or have already been unsuccessful in trying to conceive. So imagine what happens if for whatever reason you’re now in your forties, childless and suddenly wanting that family? What do you do now that everyone else has completely given up on you? It’s not over The first thing you need to know is that it’s not over, by any stretch of the imagination.  If you’re fit and healthy, you’ll do well to remember this.  Without question, you will be told repeatedly how dangerous it is to have a baby at your age, how badly it could effect the child, how difficult and resour...

 In the early days of dating most of our manners are impeccable and there’s not one word or action we miss when assessing how potential partners treat us. As time goes on however, our levels of appreciation can slip to woeful levels, sometimes bordering on downright rude and ungrateful. Sure, your partner knows you like it when he cooks your favourite meal, and sure she gets that you’re preoccupied occasionally, but the words ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ don’t take very long to say.  Our advice here is not to succumb to the easy pitfall of ingratitude, as it can be one of the most pervasive and damaging in a relationship.  Instead, demonstrate the manners and respect you would want someone else to have for your partner. Being Supportive Simply put, have your partner’s back.  When we’re trying to get close to someone it’s not unheard of to become a little biased by siding with them, or sharing their opinions. If we really don’t feel the same, we at least attempt to see it...

 Everyone’s different, we know that. Some women prefer taller men, some are only interested if you’re childfree and CEO of your own company. What we’re not trying to do here is give you a definitive list of what the woman you’re dating may be looking for, but instead showcase the traits you can’t go wrong with.  Whilst the finer details are wholly dependent on the individual you’re with, here are some winning combinations to ensure you begin on the right foot.  Humour It sounds like a cliché but clichés exist for a reason. Making a woman laugh is one of the first ways you can access some less guarded and uncomplicated moments with her.  People let go when they laugh, it’s difficult to restrain yourself when you find something genuinely funny and it’ll give you a window into who she is when she’s enjoying herself.   Humour also gives people the opportunity to put their unique spin on things, share their perspective of the world and demonstrate how they feel ...

 Matchmakers are recognised all over the world. Exclusive matchmakers are specialized in finding dates for busy single parents, divorcees, professionals, mature daters, particular religions and numerous other types of daters. This is so that every type of dater is roofed and there is hope obtainable to everyone that they could meet that perfect someone.   Many individuals have shied away from the exclusive matchmaking service because of the opinions of other people. Though what you should take into account is that those individuals that may have agreed you on their negative thoughts about matchmakers either never used such service before or is just talking out of fear. Using the matchmaking service does not mean you are not able of finding your perfect match. You are surely capable of doing that. What the matchmakers will do is to help you to meet your perfect someone in less time than you can do to do the same. Exclusive matchmakers have vast reach since they know more p...

 Relationships when they first begin can be all-consuming.  Couples want to spend every moment together, know everything about each other, love through the thick and thin, support through the amazing and the difficult times. It should come as no surprise in these situations, that familiarity can sometimes breed complacency.  Knowing someone this well can result in us assuming rather than asking questions and relying on past efforts, instead of continually pouring new energy and love into the partnership.  When the gloss of newness wears off it is sometimes an extremely slow event and before we know what’s happened, our connection to one another has all but evaporated.  If this is something you’ve experienced, or want to make sure never happens to you, our warning signs below may help you to better understand when and why an emotional reconnection is sometimes necessary. You Stopped Laughing Together or That’s All You Do Finding someone who makes you laugh, and w...

 Searching and Finding a perfect life partner is a daunting task with a busy schedule and vagueness of liking and disliking. Either you should have an idea of what exactly you are looking for or should have a connection that can find according to your considerations. Exclusive matchmakers play an important role in this regard. They can help you find the most suitable person who can fulfil your life with loads of love, joy, happiness and care.  Here are some reasons that are enough to validate why choosing a matchmaking service or hiring exclusive matchmakers is the better option.  Matchmakers listen to you carefully to know your desires and needs. They analyse your needs and then dig out their database to match you’re your desires.  Since a large number of profiles can be assessed in one place the possibility of getting a better match is higher.  They know your choices and find the one who can meet your expectation.  They look for the one who can understand...

 Searching for the right partner is not like finding the right person who can help you to survive a lonely summer, it means finding a person that you can see yourself getting old with and adoring thirty, forty, or fifty or so on down the line. Selecting the person you want to wed or commit to ever is serious business, and it demands a lot of consideration, accountability, and trustworthiness. However, once you've found that special one, all of your hard work will be worth it and you can get prepared for a lifetime of happiness.  If you want to find the right partner or spouse and failing to manage time, you must hire exclusive dating services of Berkeley International.  They offer you reliable and personalized dating and matchmaking services.  Let’s check out the reasons why you should hire their service:  Comprehensive Excellence Berkeley is operational worldwide. They have achieved success due to the understanding they have for their clients. They listen to se...

 Looking for a perfect life partner but finding it daunting due to past experiences or a busy schedule? If yes, then be relaxed. Berkeley international with its wide-ranging Dating Agency & Matchmakers services is here to help in finding the best match who will not only support your personal life but professional life as well. The first thing you need to do is to plot out what you want in your life and your life partner. Now, try to find an analogy between your life goal and life partner choice. Can he/she support you to achieve your goal? The fundamental of a successful relationship is mutual understanding and respect.  Don't consider - What do you want in your partner, Consider - What do you want in your life? Look at your bond and see if it supports your life goals. If you catch it does not, ask yourself if you are ready to live without life goals for the sake of the one you are with. Top 10 Qualities Of A Prefect Life Partner  If you find somebody who supports you...