Why finding loves feels harder over 30
As we get older the search for love, when we’re not already partnered up and happy, can feel like an uphill climb. The fears are similar for both sexes; the worry that it’s getting too late to start a family, that you’ll end up left on the shelf alone, that you’ll never get married, or find another human being who’ll accept you for who you are. However uncomfortable the feeling is, it is perfectly natural to begin getting a little antsy around this time, especially when you feel you simply want the happiness that everyone else appears to have. For those of you who need a little support, we’ve taken the time to outline a few of the main blocks people unwittingly run into when looking for love as an adult. Take note and try to avoid them if you can. You’ve been there, done that It’s likely that if you’re in your 30s, you’ve got a few relationships under your belt already. With this understandably comes a reluctance to repeat the same mistakes, fall into the same patterns or experi